What kind of portal have I entered? I think I will stay here! Or, alternatively, deal only with female doctors. No, that’s unnecessarily sexist. However, the past couple of days have borne some evidence this may bear some thought. Let me start at the beginning and tell you what happened.
You may remember yesterday I had to beg off my doctor appointment because I was in too much pain. My husband had a piggybacking appointment and spoke with her “for” me, strictly off the record, and let her know how I was doing. She assured him that my visit wasn’t a priority and to come in when I was able. My doctors trust my pain management doctor, Allan Gordon, a great deal.
Today I was to see my cannabis doctor. My husband has taken days off to make these appointments. This is how he uses his vacation days. My previous cannabis doctor has just retired, he wanted to research addiction. I am assigned a new doctor. My old doctor is very focused on goals. He wants me to go outside and go for a walk. I don’t think he can wrap his head around the concept that my knees have zero meniscus. Doctors won’t operate on me because of the complications involved. He wanted to lower my dosage, but my disease kept progressing. I think he was a caring doctor, who maybe couldn’t see the reality of chronic pain without it really affecting him. I don’t think he would accept it as being fact. He was also obsessed with what I did all day, where I spent my time. If I was in bed, I had to be asleep. No other choice. It took a year to convince him otherwise. Finally, my husband got through to him.
Look! I’m wearing people clothes! 😃
When the new doctor walked in, I was hopeful. First of all, she has many Ehlers-Danlos patients. Second, she is on board with the idea of using marijuana in all its forms, oils, pills, green, instead of my other medication. Which conflicts with what the old doc’s priorities were. In fact, he said once he ‘didn’t want to give me anything stronger so I could sit around and play video games all day’. 🙄 I expressed to this doctor that I was still having a lot of pain, and I wished there was something I could take that would help. She reviewed my strain, we talked, she asked me some questions, she asked me if I needed to be alert for work, nope. I do not, so I have some things to try. All without being treated like a drug seeking non-person. One who could lie in bed if it’s more comfortable if she wants to!
This conversation led down an interesting path. She asked about my diagnosis of EDS. I was diagnosed by a geneticist. Asked about endometriosis. Confirmed and diagnosed in 1989. Do I have a fibromyalgia diagnosis? Well…sort of. I was told they thought I had fibromyalgia, but I really have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome. Once a massage therapist told me I had fibromyalgia. Then my husband pipes up that Fibromyalgia is in my chart as my official diagnosis. The doctor mentioned I could have both. This is news to me. I will have to investigate this more. Maybe not Lupus, maybe fibromyalgia! Will definitely ask at my appointment in June.
We had to walk a bit to get a cab. This place is badly situated, as we approached the taxi lineup, the first taxi in line is a company we don’t use, and was a minivan I have trouble getting into. As we started walking closer to the second cab, the first cab in line started freaking out (we approached from the back, so we didn’t pass him) it’s freezing and icy, the other cab is closer, and I’m hobbling, very obviously. The cabbie is blasting his horn and yelling. As the cab we’re in drives past him, he’s flipping us off and yelling. So glad I’m not in that cab. Road rage? That’s a major reason we don’t use that company.
It was nice to get out. It’s always nice to be home. I don’t have an appointment for a few weeks now, I can relax.
I need to say before I close, I have had a fair share of uncaring and rude female doctors and nurses, too. Female staffers are the ones responsible for demanding to know what drug I was detoxing from, when she found out I was taking methadone. To telling me to lose weight and I’ll feel better (plenty of men have told me this, I don’t feel better). Telling me I MUST be diabetic because I’m SO FAT, I was 260 lbs at 5’8.5″ and had put on 20 lbs due to being sick and bedridden for 6 months waiting for surgery. The nurse who told me I better not have a c-section after I needed help getting up after having my side sliced open for an emergency appendectomy, which turned out to be my period starting. No grudges, just a long memory.
Hope you’re having a good day, Zebra amix! 😘